I am an active, basically happy person. I am independant and self reliant. I don't mind being alone but don't want to be lonely. I appreciate the companionship of a good man and the completeness that we can bring to each others lives. I enjoy intimacy and miss it terribly. I would like to find someone I can give my heart to. I am not into the singles social scene. A long term relationship is my ultimate goal. However, I am not going to rush into anything. FRIENDSHIP FIRST IS A MUST! Looks are only the beginning. I am more interested in whats on the inside. I do not expect perfection, just someone with a good kind heart, integrity, intelligence, etc.. For me, physical attraction begins with a mental connection. I am a very verbal person and need to be with someone likewise-- capable of sharing innermost thoughts and feelings, ideas and dreams, hopes and fears

My ideal companion is confidant and emotionally secure. He is witty and fun. He is playful and likes to flirt and tease. But he knows when to turn it off and be serious too. He is affectionate and passionate about me. He is my best friend. He works hard and plays hard. He is good with his hands and has hobbies and interests of a related nature. He is active and exercises on a regular basis. He is open minded and capable of intelligent conversation. He enjoys family activities and realizes that spending time with me